If You Don't Ask, You Don't Get
I was straining to hear the other parties to the conference call as the two sides debated a sensitive issue with significant ramifications. The matter at hand was a large corporate sale spanning several states, two separate buyers under family control, and one seriously ticked off lender.
The professionals on the phone – meaning the lawyers, accountants, and one person with the vague title of “consultant” – knew that the deal was about to blow up. And that’s when my client chimed in with something just this side of insane. There was a long pause during which all we could hear was breathing and a muffled cough. And then the buyer began to talk.
My first thought as I listened to the buyer stammer through a response was “dear God, they’re actually considering this.” Thirty days later, the completely unreasonable point raised by my client during that conference call became part of the deal with only minor variations.
I’ve reflected a great deal on that conference call. The experience was not singular in my career as I’ve had other moments like it. But this one really resonated, perhaps due to the stakes involved. We had spent months and significant dollars negotiating this deal and everyone seemed at the end of their proverbial rope. One more jostle, it seemed, and the deal would unravel. Well, my client not only jostled the arrangement, he put his entire weight on it and jumped. In the end, he got precisely what he wanted.
In sports, we often hear that the winner is the one who “wants it more.” I have always found it hard to believe that there was a locker room in which the desire to win was markedly lower than was present in room across the hall. But here’s what I’ve learned in business: the winner is frequently the one who wants it less. My client had the other side convinced that he could walk away at any time – that he was slightly more than ambivalent about the deal and that he could take it or leave it. The other side wanted it…and my client dared them to prove it. By closing on my client’s terms, that’s just what they did.
In my experience, too many business owners, even (especially?) those who pride themselves on their negotiation skills, sustain the other side’s objections. They take a look at possible terms and remove them before the other side’s review because there might be an objection. Now, I’m not suggesting that every document be drawn up to reflect the hardest possible line, but I am proposing that you “pay yourself first.” Take a good hard look at the things you want to get out of the agreement and beyond. Then ask for them.
Sure, you may have to back off a few key demands, but time and time again I have seen my grandmother’s wisdom pay off: “If you don’t ask, you don’t get.” And if you do ask…well…sometimes you’d be surprised.
Tim Robbins opined that there were two types of people: Those who, upon hearing that a storm is coming, simply pray that it passes them by, and those who prepare for it. The Shawshank Redemption
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in a company’s development. How well it is accomplished, both from a moral and a financial perspective, often dictates whether the business will succeed or fail. For this reason, every business owner should know two things: (1) such change is inevitable; and (2) the question of success or failure hinges upon advance preparation.
This past weekend, my wife and I stopped in at the 
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Of course, almost all small businesses have bears in their backyards, too. Whether it’s a client or customer who persistently fails to pay, or an employee who shows up late, leaves early, and habitually fails to produce, or a vendor that consistently fails to deliver as promised, business owners often accept, and even seem to welcome these rascals. Despite well-honed instincts warning of potential problems, many business owners disregard these instincts, for a variety of reasons, some sound and some not. With proper care and feeding, the delinquent customer, incorrigible employee, or unreliable supplier may, for a while, appear pleasant to have around and a worthwhile addition to the business.
Most organizations are not asking questions regularly to initiate true innovation, nor are they digging into the core of what makes them unique. As Tim Brown, CEO of IDEO and well known innovation speaker states, “organizations focus more on optimizing the business machine rather than creating value.” If you don’t innovate around your products and services then you aren’t optimizing your ability to successfully grow your organization and expand in the marketplace.
Joyce Quinlan had worked for Curtiss Wright for approximately 20 years when she came to believe that she had been wrongfully passed over for promotion in favor of a male employee. She then devoted herself to the collection and copying of over 1,800 documents from personnel files and project work files to which her position gave her access. 
He was convinced that giving out shares of the company was the only way to keep the group motivated, absent money to pay each person’s going rate. My visitor was wrong.
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Now, granted I was young – younger than any of the partners by a long shot – but I had just as many clients and generated more revenue than most. “Why,” I asked, “does it matter how many more sunrises I see between now and an offer of partnership?” I urged them to give me something different such as a revenue, performance, or even billable hour target to hit. But no, to them it was time. To me, this made no sense.
Given the prevalence of online activities in our society, the issue of online privacy has almost universal ramifications. A week doesn’t go by when we do not hear a question from one of our clients involving employees texting, using
We know from marketing 101 that your brand is your identity. Beyond the visual or physical makeup… name, logo, advertising, a brand is quite simply the psychological impact you have on customers. Branding is so important because people buy emotionally and then logic steps in to support their buying decision. Your brand is essentially a part of the ongoing relationship you have with customers. It is a compilation of messages that differentiate (or don’t differentiate) your business, product or service from everyone else who plays in the same space as you do. Take a second look at the competition of today. If someone stands out, why do they stand out? Who doesn’t stand out? Which category does your company fall into and who might be able to help you to improve on that position?
Maryland law required that I first obtain a distributor’s license to facilitate the transaction. I did not qualify for one. I tried to get a few of our retail stores interested in serving as my proxy, but no one would bite. And as much as I revere Baltimore’s
The quest for employee motivation is about control and the application of external force. Speaking as an employer myself, I am constantly thinking about what I can do to control the outcome I desire. I think: “What can I do to raise our revenue by increasing the rate at which files are opened or the efficiency with which work is performed.“
I can hear the wagering in the room now: “$50 bucks says there’s no way he connects Alice in Wonderland to anything remotely resembling a legal issue.” Oh, Grasshopper! Watch this:
And there was a bank to find, a line of credit to work out, employees to hire and shifts to create, policies to form, a lease to sign, equipment to install, and marketing to do. Months went by and the only car my car guy saw was the one he drove him home at night exhausted.
Alas, every journey must eventually come to an end, as must this one. With that in mind, let me briefly discuss 3 additional financing sources that I haven’t yet talked about to tie up our financing miniseries: using credit cards, funds from your IRA, or home equity loans.
I think there’s a general misconception about what happens when a VC firm makes an investment in a company. In the interests of dispelling myths, here’s what DOESN’T happen: the VC firm strokes a check, hands it over, and asks you to send them an email every six months to let them know how things are going. In fact, the reality of a VC investment is quite the opposite.
That said, there are certainly lending programs at most banks that are geared towards specific types of startup businesses. Dental and medical practices come to mind, which are bankable for a variety of reasons that are beyond the scope of this blog. However, most new businesses simply won’t qualify for bank financing, particularly in light of the new-found lending conservatism brought on by the latest recession.
A 504 Loan is really two separate loans involving two lenders, but it’s treated as a single transaction and both loans are closed at the same time. One of the lenders is a bank, which takes the 1st lien position and lends up to 50% of the loan amount. The other lender is a Certified Development Company (or CDC for short), which is usually a nonprofit or local governmental economic development entity. The CDC takes the 2nd lien position and lends up to 40% of the loan amount. Each lender’s loan will be secured by the assets being acquired. The SBA’s role, as in the 7(a) Loan, is to act as a guarantor. Here, the SBA guarantees 100% of the 2nd lienholder’s loan, but doesn’t provide any guarantee to the bank (the 1st lienholder). The theory behind this guarantee structure is that the bank has greater security for its portion of the loan via its 1st lien position on the assets being acquired and therefore doesn’t need the SBA’s guarantee. 

But I digress. “Corporate formalities” is a term with which you ought to become familiar if you intend to run, or are already responsible for running, a business.
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